In a small nonstick skillet over medium heat, add oil, sliced onion, and ¼ tsp salt. Cook for about 10–12 minutes, stirring often, until deeply golden and soft. Reduce heat as needed to prevent burning.
1 small sweet onion, 1 tsp neutral oil, 1/4 tsp salt
Transfer caramelized onions to a blender with ¼ cup water. Blend until very smooth. Strain through a fine mesh sieve to extract onion “juice,” discarding any remaining pulp.
1/4 cup water
Pour the onion juice into a saucepan. Add sugar, both vinegars, Dijon mustard, sesame oil, and all the spices. Whisk to combine.
1/2 cup granulated sugar, 3 tbsp white vinegar, 1 tbsp red wine vinegar, 1 tsp Dijon mustard, 1/4 tsp sesame oil, 1 tsp onion powder, ¼ tsp garlic powder, ½ tsp salt, ¼ tsp celery seed, ¼ tsp paprika, ⅛ tsp ground black pepper
In a small bowl, mix cornstarch with 1 tablespoon of water to make a slurry. Add it to the saucepan.
1 tbsp cornstarch
Heat sauce over medium heat. Bring to a gentle boil, then lower heat and simmer for 2–3 minutes, whisking constantly, until thickened and glossy.
Remove from heat and let cool completely. Mix in the poppy seeds, then transfer to a jar or squeeze bottle and refrigerate. Sauce will thicken slightly more as it cools. Keeps for up to 4 weeks in the fridge.
½ tsp poppy seeds